Note- this isn’t a blog claiming that Vaccines cause Autism, more it’s about how much people with or without Autism constantly argue and debate over the fact to the point that they can last for days. Sitting on the fence for this one…mainly because I don’t really care if Vaccines cause Autism or not…I still have Autism at the end of the day, doesn’t matter to me or changes my life in any way or form so I find the constant bickering and throwing toys out of the pram…pointless but hey, that’s just my opinion, it might matter to you and that’s ok, I won’t rant at you for it.
This is a topic that I have seen dominate all of Autism Awareness Month! A crazy topic that is majorly big yet I must ask, why? Why is this sudden cause to prove that Vaccines either cause or don’t cause Autism argued over so much? Many have spent the last month at least shoving videos and posts down people’s throats claiming that Vaccines are the cause for Autism and if you don’t like it, you get blocked! Sounds fair, right? It would be a shame if someone disagreed with that statement
Don’t be silly, you can’t have an opinion or disagree with someone over it, they’ll get really upset and ‘have an opinion’ you know, the same thing that you have but it’s ok for them to express their’s, you just can’t express yours without being mean or a bully…sometimes even a traitor…funny what some people come up with when their opinion is questioned.
Ok, so everyone has a right to an opinion and that also means that people can disagree with it because that’s THEIR opinion, see how it works? Yet you’ll see so many people go nuts over anyone disagreeing and going against it when there is no need to do so. Either too many people are too proud and stubborn to not back off until they have ‘won’ or don’t discuss it because I have seen people call themselves adults whilst having these arguments and I’m like ‘really’ because you don’t sound like one.
Vaccines is a massive thing to discuss when it comes to Autism and it’s always negative! So much debating and going against one another over something that in all honesty…shouldn’t be that big of a deal, especially since it’s not even 100% proven! Don’t get me wrong, if you are a firm believer in this theory then fair enough, good for you and all of that but the fact of the matter is, people are tearing into each other and running before they need to when it comes to this being ACTUAL fact! Vaccines or genetic, we all have Autism! I’m more bothered about dealing with it in current life right now and I know many parents will be worried about their children, regarding Vaccines and that’s understandable but also understand that either not EVERYONE has a child or that not just children have Autism.
We all have different opinions and ideas about this and chances are, most will argue with someone else or many people over it when really, they probably should just go about their lives, you know the thing that your doing right now…breathing and all that. Surely, you can’t be that bored that you’ll spend hours going on about this with someone you’ve never met before, right?
Can you have your opinion? Yes, of course you can but with that, everyone else get’s one as well and weirdly, I don’t think a lot of people ACTUALLY understand that little bit…other people having an opinion that might not agree with theirs…if they didn’t have a problem with someone disagreeing with their opinion then they wouldn’t spend the next three days trying to explain to that person why they shouldn’t be personally attacking them or someone they know, isn’t that a contradiction? You gave an opinion, someone disagreed with it and you ended up blocking them or going to go on and on and on about how your right and they are wrong, that’s not all about being respectable of other’s opinions, no matter how much you claim that you respect others. If someone disagrees with you, it’s your choice whether you say something back or let it go but don’t act so shocked if the other person defends themselves instead of going ‘Your so right and so much more smarter than me’ you can fight back if you want, it’s your right to do so but you have to understand that it might not go your way.
I guess the point is that you have opinions but not everyone will agree with them and if someone goes against it, you can either say something back or leave it and not make a big deal of it, that’s your choice, no one else can make it for you! Going on about how you can’t have a go at someone…OH YOU CAN! Yet that’s your choice to make! End of day, we don’t like other people telling us what we can and can’t say…well if your a so called adult, make that decision yourself!
Here’s my opinion…it doesn’t matter what causes Autism so why argue over it on Autism Support Groups? I’d rather focus on making lives easier for people who have Autism because discovering the cause of Autism, whatever that may be won’t make it go away, the Autism will still be there and always will be, better to learn how to cope than chase a theory that more than likely be proven wrong in the end like most theories are anyway but then again, it could be right but for me, unless something is 100% proven, I won’t believe it and that’s it. Do I care if you disagree…not really.
At the end of the day, your still going to have Autism, unless it is 100% proven that Vaccines cause Autism then I won’t believe a word of it because it’s not proven, just speculated along with millions of things daily about the planet. let’s all just agree to disagree? Let’s just spend all this time helping one another with tips and stories to make life’s easier for people with Autism because I don’t know about you but I wouldn’t want to look back years from now and remember all the bickering over something so trivial.
Treat people how you want to be treated