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Do I have an odd way of thinking and doing things? I have no idea, it’s just what others have told me as I have grown up…apparently my way of thinking is somewhat different to someone like an NT yet I don’t know why because I always assumed that we all would have different ways of thinking

I have heard quite often from people that have known me for quite some time that I have an ‘odd’ way of looking at things sometimes, that I tackle situations quite differently to how ‘normal’ people would do it. One or two people have said that I will spot things that other people might not see straight away and that I have something that others might not have and I have honestly wondered why anyone would think that…because I don’t try to do anything else differently to anyone else yet I always get the comments ‘I wouldn’t have done it that way!’ and I am like ‘That’s nice’ but why would it matter if I do something a little different if I think it would help me understand it?

I possibly think differently to many people, perhaps in more depth or look at a situation from a different angle, I don’t know because I don’t ask anyone else how they would do it, that’s their business! If someone doesn’t understand why I do something a certain way, chances are they’ll question it and I don’t mind that…it’s just when they try to get me to do it the way they would that annoys me to the high ends and back.

I mean, maybe my brain is wired a bit differently to other peoples, maybe I just look at things in a different way and that it helps me to see things that might not be immediately seen by others or so people tell me anyway, this isn’t something I would think if no one would have said it to me before hand, I just don’t get why so many people look at me so much and how I do things…I didn’t think it really mattered that much

Apparently, I pay that much attention that I can see other people’s emotions and will make them more vocal and point them out more than others might do so, and I mean by that is others might not be so direct about it, yet I am always straight to the point and I’ll say what I see, yet some will question that and will ask why I do things in such a way.

I think the problem is that I am just direct and often tell the blunt truth to everyone because I just don’t see the point of doing anything else yet I always get asked why…what makes me do things in that way and I have always wondered why I get asked that SO many times by everyone…does anyone else feel like they are questioned for what they do and how it might be deemed different to how it would be normally done?

Just a thought really but it’s always rather odd how many people actually pay enough attention to me to spot that I might do something different to how they would, enough to let me know anyway.




  1. I’ve had people at work tell me (not in a bad way) that I think differently. I don’t know in which way I think differently – they don’t elaborate. I think ‘do I?’ I don’t know why it’s different because I e always been me and think how I think (however that it!) I’ve been told I’ve got a quirky good sense of humour and I make people laugh, so that’s all good! 😊

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